ncbondsman13 wrote:
I am afraid with your years of experience on me that I have not reached that level of ass kissing..<>>>>>>>>>>>
Times do change... sometimes not for the best... as for ass kissing....
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
..added a bit later...Everyone does a bit of ass kissing as they move through life... part of the ride... crow is also a very good meal when served with the right side dishes... now... having clarified that....>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Do not confuse 'ass kissing' with cooperation based on mutual respect... way past ass kissing... I think my daughter and myself get along within our associations because we strive to do this job the right way and it has not been an easy road... it has taken years to garner this joint cooperation and respect within our judicial system and sometimes it takes a backward step but we strive to keep it moving forward... and that is probably why it is such a difficult thing for newbies to figure out...
Not to preach here but .... this is a very difficult business that takes much more than basic knowledge of the business itself... mutual cooperation based on joint respect has to be earned over years of working together... and there will always be those that refuse to come to the table... on both sides... other bondsmen, LE, courts, judges... etc... etc... and you will never bring them to your side...you just have to deal with it and move on... let it go... that is how I do it and how most that are successful in this industry have to do it...
I am only a very small time "old" redneck bondsman and I have never written (and never will) at the level of some of the big boys but those that deal with me should know that I will always try to be honest and straight up in my business practices and that is all I wish for in their dealings with me.......
... nuf said...
