lol..wow....
1) You were asked a direct question which you intentionally avoided answering from the very beginning..indicating hidden agendas, motivations, etc. Please remember most experienced BEA's/Pi's have been trained in interrogation techniques. 1 of the things they teach in those classes is the non-verbal communication that a person engages in..which, according to some reports, is as high as 90%. We are also taught to pay attention not so much as to what is being said, but rather what isn't...to literally read between the lines. So when you refused to answer a direct question, you intentionally harped on finding loopholes to have a particular person re-apprehended, and you have not asked a single question regarding entering the field...well you see 1 set of reasonable conclusions an experienced investigator could come to....which is you having a personal vendetta against this particular fugitive.
2) There has not been any "aggressive or personal" behaviours on my part towards you whatsoever. I don't know you at all so how could it be "personal" ? You came on here asking how to get someone arrested....your questions were answered...and then you were asked some questions, so you get offended ? duhhhh..Helloooooo ? We are investigators here...we do subscribe to unwritten codes of ethics, morality, security etc.... we don't know to whom we are addressing..maybe you are the fugitive in question trying to self-educate on how to avoid being arrested ? Did that ever cross your mind ? On how you come across to us ?
3) Also remember the internet is full of "players", criminals, child molesters, con artists, etc. Anyone can claim to be anything at anytime online. Just because you claim to be a 27 yr old male, doesn't make it so. Additionally, Gay couples do have children these days, they do get married (in some states), and they do get divorced. I have read about gay couples engaging in child custody battles. So you saying that you are a male and the def. is male doesn't mean anything.
4) You are correct in determining that this field probably isn't for you. If you can't handle being questioned by an anonymous person online, then how would you handle a full scale interrogation by cops/Da's/defense attorneys ?
Obviously the thought of having to subject yourself to leo inquiries has never entered your mind. There are an infinite number of scenarios that the professional BEA may and does find him/herself in on a daily basis:
A) You enter a house only to see kilos of cocaine in plain sight
B) You enter a dwelling to find a dead/tortured/mutilated body
C) You locate a def's vehicle only to find it bloody and bullet ridden
D) You find a dead body in the vehicle....
On and on I could go. You would then be subjected to not just hours of brutal interrogations by all kinds of people from all different kinds of leo agencies, but the media as well for years...some cases go on and on and on.....
This business requires a "tough skin" personality, and if my few words made you this upset...wow..I'd hate to see you when you get grilled by a group of cops when they get called on you at a potential subject's house, only the call comes out on the radio as "suspicious person with a gun" or "Man with a gun"...lol
Best of luck to you in your future...whatever it may be...